Thursday, April 11, 2013

A time to whine, a time to laugh

During a Skype video chat with my mother and Sanaa yesterday, Sanaa was somewhat cranky and capricious, one moment wanting to go out and play in the cold, then wanting to take off the cardigan she was wearing, then refusing to throw her basketball through the basket on (my) request, and so on until it degenerated into wordless whining, just one step away from meltdown.

My mother tried to get her to actually talk rather than whine, telling her: "Sanaa, stop whining and use your words, tell me what you want because I can't understand you otherwise." But Sanaa just continued in the same vein.

Eventually, exasperated, amma asked her: "Sanaa, what is it that you want to DO?"

Sanaa: "I want to whine!"

I'm afraid I was laughing far too much to hear amma's reply to that.

Tuesday, January 15, 2013

The best punishment for rapists

It is not physical castration, because fantasies - violent or otherwise - arise in the mind/brain. Women can be raped - to grievous effect, as witness the poor 23-year-old victim's injuries caused by an iron rod - with things other than a penis. Since rape is about power/anger/revenge, castrating a rapist is no guarantee at all that he would stop harming women. The bottomline is, the penis, for all its reputation as a "fearsome weapon" (ha) does not cause a man to rape. 

It is not chemical castration, because see above. Also, as far as I know, there's no single dose of any medicine for life - it's an ongoing process and has to be taken willingly by the man. Not bloody likely, is it, especially if he's out in the world as a "functioning" person? 

It is not - up to a point - execution (this in my opinion), because it's too easy a way out for the rapist. 

Imprisonment, however, IS just the ticket, in my opinion. I personally think all rapists should suffer all their natural life long, the way their victims have to suffer. Solitary confinement for life, with no interaction whatsoever with anyone at all, ever. If they go mad, so be it. I'm sure plenty of people would be willing to pay a little extra tax to ensure that the cost of subsidising the rapists' stay in prison is met. I know I would. Besides, all they would ever need is just enough food to keep them alive, and none of it is required to be the finest quality organic food prepared by 5-star chefs. 

Murder may or may not be deliberate and may even have mitigating circumstances. But rape can never happen by accident or be committed as a "mistake" - it's always a deliberate act committed by the physically stronger on the physically weaker. It's the one crime that's never, ever forgivable.