tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8643109.post8425624345829434928..comments2023-10-31T15:19:20.819+00:00Comments on Inspired to blog: On best-friendshipShammihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07905000396589717457noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8643109.post-77628378996615817442011-01-24T09:53:06.810+00:002011-01-24T09:53:06.810+00:00'Ema it was! :)'Ema it was! :)(you-know-who)noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8643109.post-56874233377047728232011-01-22T09:11:25.182+00:002011-01-22T09:11:25.182+00:00Thanks, V :)Thanks, V :)Shammihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07905000396589717457noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8643109.post-45902827443430654112011-01-22T08:31:43.978+00:002011-01-22T08:31:43.978+00:00BANG ON. You just made everything clearer in my he...BANG ON. You just made everything clearer in my head. loved this post.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8643109.post-29851375639719516332011-01-19T06:59:22.236+00:002011-01-19T06:59:22.236+00:00ok, getting overly philosophical or something like...ok, getting overly philosophical or something like that in this topic:<br /><br />Wouldn't "To err" mean one or two incidents? what if one forgives, once, twice, thrice.... then finds out it is the personality and then have doubts that may be they mean what they say? still forgive? what is that "forgive" means? "accept"? Accepting means what, let them do that mistake over and over? may be they are oblivious to their own certain personality and wouldn't it be right thing to point out? the thirukkural (திருக்குறள்) says, <br />"nahuthar poruttandru nattal, mihuthikkan<br />mersendru idiththar poruttu"<br /><br />நகுதற் பொருட்டன்று நட்டல் மிகுதிக்கண் <br />மேற்சென்று இடித்தற் பொறுட்டு <br /><br />friendship is not about laughing (or having nice time) together, but going a little bit further by pointing out when they err!<br /><br />:-)<br />(isn't that (this comment) what they call going overboard? :-D )<br /><br />- PremalathaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8643109.post-5471664215603638822011-01-18T22:03:28.886+00:002011-01-18T22:03:28.886+00:00Prema: You've hit the nail on the head - you c...Prema: You've hit the nail on the head - you certainly can have more than one best friend, each one for a different aspect. Absolutely spot on! And PS. I really am not nice all the time :) <br /><br />Anu: Darn it, a one-liner that pretty much encapsulates what I've been saying in many many many words! :)Shammihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07905000396589717457noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8643109.post-42657040422505923522011-01-18T20:36:24.747+00:002011-01-18T20:36:24.747+00:00Saw a quote on a cofee cup:
"To err is human...Saw a quote on a cofee cup:<br /><br />"To err is human to forgive means you are a good friend!"<br /><br />Sort of ties in with what you are trying to say :-)Anuhttp://mobiustext.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8643109.post-67681396538651792002011-01-18T19:44:26.003+00:002011-01-18T19:44:26.003+00:00I would call someone a best friend if I can feel c...I would call someone a best friend if I can feel comfortable enough to open up to her/him. All others are good friends. And, there can be more than one best friend, each one each aspect! I do have friends like that though I am not sure they think of me the same way :-)<br /><br />What I have seen from your comments and fb posts/comments, you are not what you claim in this post. you are far too nicer to everyone imo. :-) And, I am sure you have seen how blunt I am!<br /><br />How do you know what I have been thinking? ;-) the last para sounds like an answer to my thoughts. thanks. :-)<br /><br />PremalathaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8643109.post-22307493932788892032011-01-18T16:00:22.428+00:002011-01-18T16:00:22.428+00:00Thanks, Ema, if it IS Ema. If not - Thanks, Hema! ...Thanks, Ema, if it IS Ema. If not - Thanks, Hema! :)Shammihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07905000396589717457noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8643109.post-86946792012596038672011-01-18T15:21:19.460+00:002011-01-18T15:21:19.460+00:00Love the post..and agree 100% :)Love the post..and agree 100% :)Hemanoreply@blogger.com