tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8643109.post136683887246087358..comments2023-10-31T15:19:20.819+00:00Comments on Inspired to blog: Puzzling statementShammihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07905000396589717457noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8643109.post-56004960362463740822008-09-28T13:05:00.000+01:002008-09-28T13:05:00.000+01:00i think he was just saying whatever came to his mi...i think he was just saying whatever came to his mind, using stock phrases.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8643109.post-12100016914748956612008-09-26T18:33:00.000+01:002008-09-26T18:33:00.000+01:00Feel he just wanted to emphasise how important she...Feel he just wanted to emphasise how important she was in his life and just how big a void her death has caused. You know, becaause a best friend has top rating -- more important than anyone else. Losing a best friend is like losing a MOST loved one. I do agree that no child can be an adult's best friend. No 'normal' adult's anyways.Teesu (very very Indian, very very good)https://www.blogger.com/profile/18121120105725432864noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8643109.post-33724538945256615542008-09-26T05:16:00.000+01:002008-09-26T05:16:00.000+01:00It is somewhat strange, but maybe you should cut t...It is somewhat strange, but maybe you should cut that father some slack - people are not at their most rational when they're grieving.<BR/>A sad, sad, story all around.<BR/>Kamini.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8643109.post-52496001090607979152008-09-25T14:54:00.000+01:002008-09-25T14:54:00.000+01:00You have an award waiting...You have an award waiting...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8643109.post-73425767618281453952008-09-25T14:09:00.000+01:002008-09-25T14:09:00.000+01:00True, that is a strange statement to make. But you...True, that is a strange statement to make. But you know how people are when they aren't thinking straight. Some words just come along with the rest as sidekicks, not really playing an important meaningful role, but more as accompaniments. Maybe it was that. <BR/>Or maybe he did really treat her as a friend. A listening friend. It's hard getting those kind these days. Maybe he was lonely. <BR/><BR/>So many maybes :)radshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01912871096631491298noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8643109.post-43171160980078500352008-09-25T07:46:00.000+01:002008-09-25T07:46:00.000+01:00maybe he meant that she gave him all the comfort a...maybe he meant that she gave him all the comfort and security a best friend would? i guess, in grief, he wasn't thinking through. and i am just wondering what went through the mother's mind. i can't just label her evil... there must have been something more to it. not that it's justified in anyway.umm oviyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07158003496153375327noreply@blogger.com